Anxiety Thoughts: Getting to your deep down
thoughts
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Throughout my newsletter I work through many
specific questions utilizing CBT.
The principle of CBT is that your thoughts cause
your anxiety and panic attacks. Therefore by locating the
thoughts that make you feel badly, you are then in a position to
recognize the cognitive distortions and then in a position to
generate alternative, and more accurate and realistic thoughts that
will make you feel better.
As you can probably see by now, it is important to
really get at your thoughts, because once this happens you have
something to work with.
Often when we’re anxious or having a panic attack,
it is very challenging to nail down our specific thoughts; which
makes it’s hard to do CBT because we do not have specific thoughts
to work on.
Often people struggle with the issue of how to
figure out what their underlining thoughts are. What I am
suggesting is that you obviously know that you feel anxious but you
might have trouble connecting it to any specific
thoughts.
I have suggested ways in which you can be a good
detective with your thoughts, but I’d like to suggest some more
ways to do so.
As I suggested, however, in the last installment,
if you continue to do something long enough you become very
proficient in what you do. I believe this to be the case with
restructuring your thinking, too, but I want to put forward some
additional suggestions for getting at those anxiety producing
thoughts!
First, it is important to keep a journal of your
daily emotions, feelings, and of course any thoughts throughout the
day. The act of journaling and documenting things will allow
you the opportunity to get at your thoughts at a later time and do
CBT.
The reason I suggest listing your emotions
throughout the day is that if you can first look back at how you
felt at different times throughout the day, you can look to see if
there were situations and/or thoughts that might have triggered
these emotions.
When you look back at a specific emotion it might
prove helpful in figuring out what your thoughts were.
This is the same for specific events that may have
happened during the day.
A process I suggest, however, is to look at a
particular emotion throughout the day and ask yourself the
following: “What thoughts could be causing these emotions?” I
suggest that when you do this you will probably start getting some
ideas. It might take a few minutes but really reflecting on
these things can be helpful. Once you get some ideas about
what could be causing your emotions, I would suggest that these are
likely what are causing your emotions.
The great news is that now you have some thoughts
to work with. Now you can proceed with the process of CBT
(which you no doubt are very familiar by now). I wanted to
make this suggestion for the weekend in case you have some extra
time to begin some journaling.
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